26 Sep
Podcast #16
The Belly Brain is the start of safety for a lifetime in your child. They can use it at school now matter what their young age to help with bullies.
| Tike Tip Professor Belly Brain says… ![]() “If someone is treating you badly, tell them you don’t like it and to stop!” |
While your child is very young, teaching them about the Belly Brain sets up a lifetime of safety for them. They can use it in many situations, like when they head off to school.
In preschool bullies come in the form of young kids learning how to behave socially. Using the term “bully” is not necessarily approprite but it is descriptive of some children’s behavior. What we want you to teach your child is that, regardless of how young they are, they do not have to put up with the bad behavior of other children.
Teach them the appropriate response to bullying and that is, go find a trusted teacher at school for help. At the end of the day, they should be able to talk to you about it to. At the preschool ages, kid need to rely on parents and teachers to solve bad behavioral problems with peers. They need to know you will handle it calmly and immediately.
19 Sep
Podcast #15
The Belly Brain is the start of safety for a lifetime in your child.
| Tike Tip Professor Belly Brain says… ![]() “Never help a stranger look for a lost pet!” |
While your child is very young, teaching them about the Belly Brain sets up a lifetime of safety for them. They can use it in many situations, like when they head off to school.
Preschool age kids have many changes they go through. Their Belly Brain, is a good thing to use whenever they begin to meet new friends, new teachers and head off to preschool, even for a few hours a day.
They instinctively will know if they feel safe, secured and cared for in the preschool environment. This goes beyond the normal separation anxiety from Mom and Dad. They will tell you if something is just not right if they feel it in their Belly Brain. You’ll be able to tell with your Belly Brain if it’s a real issue to pursue or something normal they are experiencing in a new environment.
12 Sep
Podcast #14
Belly Brain games creates many safety advantages for your child.
| Tike Tip Professor Belly Brain says… ![]() “Never accept a ride or a gift from a stranger!” |
The Belly Brain is all about safety for your child. Its about their ability to keep themselves safe when you are not around.
A critical aspect of this safety is the fact that when the Belly Brain goes off, your child comes to you to tell you about it. They need to know and trust that one, you’ll be there for them and two, you listen to them when they tell you what’s going on.
This is easier said than done for many parents. It is very important that when you child tells you something that happens with the Belly Brain that you listen calmly and quietly. They need to tell you in their own words what is going on and know that you will let them finish.
Staying calm, being a “rock” solid anchor for them, is simply setting up a trusting relationship for their lifetime between you and your child.
5 Sep
Podcast #13
Play games with your child that teaches them to perceive their environment in a keener way.
| Tike Tip Professor Belly Brain says… ![]() “Always keep a safe distance from strangers!” |
We all know the advantages to playing games with your child, is a great way to teach them safety with fear and paranoia. It’s the types of games you play with them that will really make a difference.
Playing games that help your child tune into their environment, more specifically, details in that environment, is the best type of game to play. Once they are good at seeing things in their world, start to change them around and ask them to tell you what the changes are. Start where it’s pretty obvious and move into very subtle changes as they get better and better with their focus and observational powers.
When they get really good at perceiving even the smallest changes, you can create games and fun with the entire family no matter where you go and what you do, all the time building safety “behind the scenes” in your child.